Friday 21 November 2014

Mahipatram Roopram Nilkanth | Bholanath Sarabhai Divetia | Social Reformist | Gujarat

Many houses, offices and landmarks in the Walled City are named after various members of the Nilkanth family in gratitude to the people who awakened the city to the need for women's education, and to the existence of social evils such as child marriage, the caste system and the practice of declaring a person outcaste, just because he had crossed the seas.

For instance, the road opposite the Baradari bungalow leading into Khanpur is called Vidyagauri Nilkanth Marg. Right in front of the Ahmedabad Municipal Corporation's ( AMC) Danapith building is a marble bust of Ramanbhai Nilkanth. In Raipur, there is an orphanage named Mahipatram Rupram Nilkanth Anath Ashram. And most important of all, the famous Bholanath Sarabhai Devetia Haveli in Lakha Patel ni pol.

On Saturday evening, at a quite function in Navrangpura, Shailja Kalelkar Parikh and Sukumar Parekh released a book in which they have narrated stories about the two families-that of the famous author, social reformer Mahipatram Roopram Nilkanth and that of Bholanath Sarabhai Divetia. The book is titled 'Marching to a different beat, the Nilkanths of Gujarat'. Both had contributed immensely to the strengthening of Gujarat's social fabric.

Bholanath was the founding member of 'Dharma Sabha' and was often called the 'Raja Rammohan Roy' of Gujarat. Shailja and Sukumar's book is set between 1829 and Independence. It gives an account of the opposition the two families had to face when they stood up against the rigidities of society. The Prarthnasabha, Hindu Sansar Sudhara Samaj and Anjuman-e-Islam are just a few of the societies that the two families had nurtured. The two families became closer to each other when Ramanbhai Nilkanth married Vidyagauri. Their daughter was named Vinodinee Nilkanth.

Ramanbhai's father, Mahipatram Roopram, a reformer and educationist, was the first to cross the seas to travel to England in March 1860 and write after returning to Gujarat in April 1861, the first Gujarati travelogue - 'Englandni Musafininu Varnan'. He had gone on the advice of the educationist TC Hope who was reviewing textbooks for children. Mahipatram was then a temporary headmaster at the Ahmedabad High School.

On his return, the Nagars banished Mahipatram from the community and nicknamed him 'Vilayati Monkey'. Throughout this painful episode, Bholanath Sarabhai, Dalpatram Kavi, Kavi Narmad, Ranchodlal Chhotalal, his wife Parvatikunvar stood by him like a rock. (Parvatikunvar had by now joined her husband against blind rituals, child marriage and the movement for women's education).

By 1865, Parvatikunvar was instrumental in forming the Stree Mandal which had several influential women as members. Prominent among these was Harkuvar Shethani, wife of Hutheesing Kesrisingh. By 1888, the Gujarat Ladies Club had come into existence. Mahipatram had written a whole book, 'Paravatikunvar Akhyan', narrating the story of her struggles. By 1881, Mahipatram had written three biographies - Kapol Karsandas Mulji Charitra (1877), Durgaram Charitra (1879) and novels like Vanraj Chavdo (1881), Sasu Vahuni Ladhai (1866) and Sadhara Jaesangh (1880). These books focussed on the social evils and absurdities of the time.

Talking about their book on Saturday, Shailaja Kalelkar Parikh said that the book gives an account of the Prarthana Samaj and Bholanatah Sarabhai's efforts to rid society of irrational beliefs and superstitions.

"It also tells about the civic, educational and literary advancements made during Ramanbhai's time, Lady Vidyagauri's contribution to women's empowerment and Gandhiji's influence on the two families," said Shailaja Parikh.

Source : http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/city/ahmedabad/Mahipatram-crossed-the-seas-and-paid-the-price/articleshow/26330658.cms

Saturday 1 November 2014

Orphans Abuse | Living Conditions | Abductions | Orphans Trafficking

I want to cover a sensitive topic today of abuse in some orphanages and pathetic living conditions.

I was reading a news article of orphanages in some city in south india which had cases of abuse. And also have read some more article on subject.

In order to help people, who are aware about any such prevailing conditions in any orphanages in your city. I have listed few ways by which you can help innocent orphans from such abuse.

1. Get as many details as possible about abuse or living conditions plight. If possible for bad living conditions take pictures.

2. Next best thing is to have two way approach, first you should inform it to police. You can do that by anonymous call to nearest police station if you do not want to reveal your identity or you can approach them with details that you have.

3. Second approach is you can always let know a journalist of any newspaper that you aware of, and provide them with details you have gathered and ask them to investigate the case and then if they find it true then cover it in newspaper.

4. If you find any kid or young person who you think looks lost especially near places like railway stations and bus stops. Its always good as good citizen to take the kid to nearest police station, so that police can then take him to his parents.

5. Its duty of parents to teach their kids not to go with strangers. And also make them aware not to go with anyone without informing them. Many traffickers befriend kids in trains,buses,malls etc and try to abduct them at given opportunity.

6.Do not force the children to study or punish them unnecessary when they are very young,that they start getting ideas of running away from home.  Treat your kids preciously.

7. Do not leave your kids in public places unattended even for a min, you would always regret later on why we left them for a min. There are many traffickers who prey for such kids and then sell your kids like a commodity and thus making their life miserable for life long.

8. Police departments are not as bad they are highlighted in movies and if you go to them for good causes like this, believe me they would give you full co-operation and at times even rewarding you with appreciation.

15 rescued from orphanage after complaint of abuse | Chennai

CHENNAI: Police and child welfare committee (CWC) officials rescued 15 children of an orphanage near Medavakkam on Thursday after a sponsor complained of child abuse and poor living conditions.

Police said the orphanage had children of single parents too. Soon after the Kancheepuram district collector's order to close down Vallalar Gurukulam on Wednesday, 15 children were taken away by their guardians. Orphanage director Vinod Kumar moved the rest of the children to an apartment in Velachery, from where police rescued them on Thursday. These children have been moved to a government children's home.

Police have registered a case against Kumar under Section 23 and 24 of Juvenile Justice Act (punishment for exposing a child to any form of cruelty) against the owner Vinoth Kumar based on a formal complaint by Kancheepuram district social welfare officer Sargunam. "No arrests have been made so far. The district social welfare officer will conduct an inquiry with the children and file a report based on which we will take action," said Pallikaranai inspector R Alagu.

One of the sponsors had complained that the living conditions in the orphanage were poor and the children were being abused. CWC members conducted an inspection on Wednesday. CWC members said the children were crammed into two small rooms in the orphanage, separate for boys and girls. The place had only two toilets, and the boys had no bathroom. "Though the sponsor has complained of physical abuse of children, we are yet to get such a statement from a child," said an official.

Orphanages in Tamil Nadu have been in the news for the wrong reasons, including child sexual abuse and trafficking. In November 2008, TOI exposed how some orphanages in Mamallapuram had become hotbeds of child sexual abuse, often by foreign tourists. "Mamallapuram is notorious for orphanages that have become cottage industries," said Salma, former chairperson of Tamil Nadu Social Welfare Board, who issued closure notices to more than 30 orphanages.

Vidya Reddy, director of Tulir, Centre for the Prevention and Healing of Child Sexual Abuse, said there should be a separate directorate of residential facilities for children-out-of-homecare. "Why should there be so many orphanages in this state? If these children really matter to our government, there should be a body with independent charge looking at licensing of orphanages, their inspection and action against violators," she said.

Source : http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/city/chennai/15-rescued-from-orphanage-after-complaint-of-abuse/articleshow/35740560.cms

More Couples Coming Forward to Adopt Orphans in Gujarat | Girl Orphans

More and more childless couples are seen coming forward to adopt but she continues to be abandoned.The society in the past decade has undergone a distinctive change in the issue of acceptance of the girl child. More and more childless couples are seen coming forward to adopt girl child.  However, this doesn't mean that their abandonment rate has decreased. 
Thanks to the efforts made by the state government, NGOs and social workers to improve the skewed sex ratio in many districts of the state, ratio has improved. However, awareness seems to be working only in matters of adoption and not for the infant girl who is still abandoned mercilessly.
When DNA checked some of the orphanages of the state, ratio of the girl child abandonment is persistent and higher than that of the boys. According to the data available from the Adoption Co-ordinating Agency (ACA), Gujarat, the nodal agency handling issue of adoption in state, 1,493 girls were abandoned at various orphanage homes in the state. The ratio is 55% and high, more than 10% when compared to the 1,183 boys registered during the same period.
According to the ACA figures, in adoption boys top the figure list between 2001 and 2005, but after 2006, couples have started adopting more orphaned girls. In last five years from 2006, couples adopted 363 girl children as against 288 boys.
"Looking at the data, abandonment is persistent but at the same time girls are being adopted more as against boys, surely hinting at a change of attitude in society, and definitely a positive sign. This hints at the fact that our awareness programmes and campaigns are effective," said Poonam Gandhi-Moiranthem, assistant professor, department of sociology of MS University of Vadodara.
However, Prof Gandhi said, "We have to figure out people belonging to which class of the society are involved in abandonment of the girl child and adoption. As far as I think, the educated and upper class people have no problem with the adoption of girls. Whereas effective awareness programmes have to be carved out for the marginalised class of the society."
Another social thinker Gaurang Jani, said, "The figure shows there is a lack of awareness in the society regarding girl child. Society's mindset has not changed despite intense campaigning on the same."
Speaking on the trend of adoption of girl child, Natu Patel, ACA secretary said, "The attitude of people has changed. Couples now believe that girls are doing well in every sector of the society and at the same time are able to help their parents more than boys during their sunset years." Patel added that couples have no problem now and in fact they are more than happy to raise a girl child.
However, authorities of orphanages are more concerned about the ratio of abandonment, which is higher than that of boys. Vijay Pandit, superintendent of the Mahipatram Roopram Ashram, said, that occupancy of baby girl is higher in the ashram. Another orphanage home in Rajkot, Kathiawadi, Nirashrit Balashram has more number of girls than boys.
“It is because many a times, illiterate parents abandon girls at public places, and police ask us to take her to our orphanage. However, now couples come forward willingly to adopt girl child," said Jyotsana Jugadiya, superintendent of Balashram.
Source : http://www.dnaindia.com/analysis/report-the-state-of-the-girl-child-in-gujarat-1660228

Orphanages for HIV-Affected Children in Gujarat

A New children's home for AIDS orphans could prove to be a boon for several children like Saloni (name changed), who lost both her parents to HIV/AIDS. Incidentally, Saloni's grandparents are not financially well off to secure the nine-year-old against HIV.

It was a few days ago that a network of HIV/AIDS affected people found Saloni and her grandparents in Kutch district. The association approached the children's home run by the Gujarat State Network of People with HIV/AIDS (GSNP+) and state Social Defense department to support Saloni with nutrition, medication and studies.
Gujarat is among the few states in India to start the concept of children's home for HIV/AIDS patients this year.
Two such homes were started this April, one in Surat for girls, and another in Gandhinagar for boys.
Deputy Director of Social Defence Department, Aruna Dave said: "The main emphasis for the Social Defence Department for 2009-10 is to provide benefit to the HIV/AIDS positive children. Generally, the government does not provide grants to the grant-in-aid institutions in the first year. But, we are giving 100 per cent grant to the children's home, considering their nutritional and medication needs. The Social Defence Department will also provide scholarships to the children if they pursue their studies. This also applies to those whose parents are HIV positive."
Saloni, who is in Surat now, will be one of the students instrumental in christening the brand new children's home for HIV/AIDS, where she is now residing.
GNSP+ president Daksha Patel said: "Saloni cried for her grandparents when she was brought here. But now, she seems settled. Her grandparents were very old and had no money even to buy her the tickets for her journey to Surat."
Patel added: "The children home will be given a new name soon, so that it gives them the feeling of home. The aim is to make the children in the age group of 1-17 independent, so that they can take care of themselves from the disease. We will take care that the children don't feel and don't mention that they are living in an orphanage, to their classmates. We have shortlisted a few names and left it to them to christen it."
The caretakers at the two orphanages are also HIV positive, Patel said.
She added: "An HIV/AIDS positive couple is taking care of the boys' home in Gandhinagar and one girl is taking care of the girls in Surat. The numbers of students is likely to increase as the schools reopen. At present, there are around 20 children in both orphanages, but their number will increase to 36 as they take school leaving certificates for admission to the children's home."
She further said that as soon as the children join the home, they will be admitted to the new government primary schools and given daily tuition.
Last year, during a public hearing hosted by state Health and Family Welfare Department Minister Jay Narayan Vyas, the issue about HIV/AIDS positive orphans were discussed. Now, the state government has agreed to provide support to them and sanctioned two children's home.
Source : http://archive.indianexpress.com/news/children-s-home-for-hiv-aids-a-boon-for-orphans/634882/0

After 13 yrs in Kerala orphanage, boy from gujarat finds family

A boy from Gujarat who went missing 13 years ago after he boarded the wrong train, and landed up in an orphanage in Kerala, has been reunited with his family.

According to the boy's brother Tukaram, Bharat Valaker and his friend Vishnu, both in Class I then, ran away from Jivdaya Mission's boarding school in Prantij town because they wanted to go home to their families in Ahmedabad. While Vishnu reached home safely, Bharat boarded the wrong train and landed up in a village near Perinthalmanna in Kerala.
S Krishnadas, a doctor, saw Bharat accompanying a beggar near the railway station and tried to talk to him. On finding out that the boy could not speak a word of Malayalam and sensing that he was not a beggar, Krishnadas took Bharat to the police. The boy remained with the police for six months before Krishnadas decided to adopt him. Bharat grew up in the doctor's house and went to school with his children.
Meanwhile, Krishnadas and a local philanthropist, C P Janardhanan, decided to open an orphanage. "Bharat was one of the first inmates," said Sethu Madhavan, one of the founders and current manager of Gokulam Balasadanam, which now houses about 40 children from all over India. "About three years ago, Bharat started to talk about going back to Gujarat," Madhavan said.
Luck favoured him earlier this year, when he went to Jamnagar for a vocational training course in operating mechanical cranes. Although his Gujarati was barely functional, Bharat was able to locate his old school and get his family's phone number. Bharat soon met his family and his mother Bhartiben Valaker recognised him immediately by a scar on his forehead. "It's a miracle. We looked for him everywhere, but we never thought he would be in Kerala of all places," said Bhartiben.
Last Sunday, Bharat returned to the orphanage, accompanied by brothers Krishna and Tukaram and mother. Bhartiben liked the orphanage and did not object to her son completing his studies there. The family will return to Ahmedabad on July 31.
Source : http://archive.indianexpress.com/news/after-13-yrs-in-kerala-orphanage-gujarati-boy-finds-family/495328/